On the second day back from hospital, we have our first real challenge presented: my continued weight loss.
My ‘normal’, skinny-fat, not-working-out weight is 10 stone, sometimes a little more. Over the course of the three months of chronic diarrhoea I experience, my weight dropped to 8.9 stone. On the day before my release from hospital, I was at 8.5 stone. Today, I’m at 8 stone exactly, despite eating small healthy meals every two hours. Now there’s a good chance our bathroom scales aren’t very accurate – I don’t feel like I’ve lost half a stone in two days, but the fact is that I’m not putting on weight again, and I seriously need to.
I’ll need to check this online, but my recollection is that a normal male needs about 1600 calories a day to maintain weight, and 2-3000 calories to gain weight. We decided yesterday that I’ve been eating my Low-residue diet at a weight-maintenance level, and need to up the calorie intake dramatically. But it’s not that easy to eat that many calories – it’s much easier to drink them.
Bring on the shakes.
The hospital sent me away with a box of 20 nasty-looking meal-replacement shakes to help me bulk up, but I’d been reluctant to take them, as they have many added artificial flavourings and sugars – that doesn’t seem like a healthy way to treat someone with a Crohn’s flare-up. But, in a mild panic about bringing on those extra calories yesterday, I did drink a couple, in addition to my normal meals of white basmati rice with low-res veg, and soups. But we need a good healthy option for long term, healthy weight gain and healing.
Jini Patel Thompson comes to the rescue in several ways here, once again. She’s developed a shake called Absorb Plus which is a complete, balanced combination of protein, carbs, and amino acids. It’s so balanced, it is the sole ingredient in her Elemental diet – a liquid-only diet taken to give the bowel complete rest to induce remission from a flare-up; something I intend to do once I’m off the steroids.
Alternatively, Jeannie has been making a fantastic shake with all-natural ingredients, based on a recipe again by Jini Patel Thompson. Check that out here.
I’ve been taking a few of Jeannie’s shakes over the day that I’ve been putting together these posts, and had one last night too, and have already noticed that might weight has gone up a couple of pounds; that’s quite a relief after all this time, and very encouraging indeed.
After a fantastic session with Chinese Herbalist Simon Jones today, we’ve also go the thumbs-up on various foods that are low-residue and will help put on the pounds; happily for us, these are the kind of foods I’ve been having anyway:
- White Basmati rice
- Raw, unpasteurised milk, preferably Goat’s or Sheeps
- Sweet potato
- Butternut squash
- Aubergine
- Honey
- Refined white pasta (we’re using spelt, as its supposed to be easier on the digestive system)
- Coconut milk
- Avocado
- Black bananas (pre-digested)
However, I must say that this does fly in the face of Specific Carbohydrate Diet thinking, as those grains, and the dairy, are known to produce flare-ups in those with an intolerance. The nutritional Therapist that I spoke with today certainly didn’t approve.
My intuition tells me that I don’t have those intolerances, as I was following the scd very strictly on the run-up to my crash, with very little success.
All the more reason to get those lab tests done quickly.
I have to go with my intuition on this journey, I need to really listen, for better or for worse.
That feels right, so we’ll see how we get on, and will constantly adjust accordingly…
hey Paul,
I’ve not read all of your posts in detail so you might have mentioned this again elsewhere but a normal weight woman needs around 2000 calories to maintain, a man more than this but you can find out on-line based on your weight height and activity level. Also to gain 0.5kg a week you’ll need 500 calories a day more than your maintenance diet.
wishing you lots of luck and love on your journey!
jx
Thanks loads Jo! I’m working with a nutritional therapist, and she agrees – we’re aiming for 3000 calories a day – it’s not easy! I’m very slowly gaining a little weight, but trying not to worry too much about it at this point, as I want to remove as much stress as possible, and I realised that my weight was worrying me a bit. As I see it, as long as I gradually pick up weight again over the next few months, I should be ok – fingers crossed!